Thirteen Deep. Blog Post 13

Cheating in a relationship and, mens attachment to sex.

When it comes to cheating in a relationship it's always viewed differently from the outside looking in. It's always leave them because they cheated on you!, how are you still in a relationship with them or why are you still with them? they cheated on you, had you out here looking dumb and you still with them. The outsiders (ones who aren't in your relationship) ALWAYS feel like their opinion is important over your own and like you have to take their advice when most the time you never even asked for it, you just wanted to be comforted or help to get your mind off the situation that just happened. That type of energy where they try to tell you what to do with your relationship or make you feel like you have to take their advice is never welcomed. Because it's like if they wanted your advice on what to do then they would've asked you.

It's always questioned if you still want to be with that person and if the relationship can be repaired, because sometimes it actually can be, where as other times it's not but still is anyways because they don't want to lose that person just wants to have them. After the person betrays you in that way everything they do after that is questioned or honestly makes them feel some type of way. whatever level of trust and honesty you had with them is now vanished, gone and ain't coming back! It be so hard to put your trust in them again because it's like damn,I trusted you before and you did me dirty so why should I trust you again? just for you to do the same thing over and over and when you finally leave them you're left as fragile as a fresh flower petal when you used to be strong as a 1930 Metal Iron.

After dealing with people like that, people who get over on you just because they know you coming back are fucked up and don't care about your well being and probably won't ever.

It takes some serious maturing for them to change and honestly takes for you to leave them and to heal from their bullshit for them to see how amazing you were, how much bullshit they put you through, how good they had it with you and to see how toxic they were. I feel like people who've been through that in a relationship usually end up attracting more people like that or either can be hard to trust the next one because they don't wanna go through that again and can make it hard for their next partner. And it can hard for the other person because you're constantly reminding them that you're not their last partner and you're different from them and make them not even wanting to be with them or having to have a whole new level of patience and that can blossom into a new level of love if the damaged person is willing to try.

Men's attachment to sex

When guys have sex with somebody they go on and on about how they fucked them and be on the next one but whole time they be telling the whole crew! like dawggg, I thought you was on to the next why you still bragging about how good Tiffany threw it back on you three months ago, three years ago and you done fucked Ashley, Naomi, Rhonda and Keisha too?!

Like does it make you feel powerful to bring up the women you've fucked in the past? and talk about it like you the only one who can make her cum?! It's almost as if they're attached to the women they've fucked and have to constantly bring it up to remind them of who hit it the best or bring up the freak nasty things they've done to them. and having that feeling of pride that you had sex with them is that emotional attachment, It's almost like talking about the women or guys they fucked makes them feel superior, like they that nigga, almost as if it makes they dick grow longer or something like OKAYYYY? Most the time us women forget about it or tuck it in the back of our minds at some point because we've let it go but It seems like 'men' don't know how to exactly do that.

I seen this movie a while ago and some of the guys in the movie had a whole roster of the women they've fucked and plan on fucking. Like even it was a movie, why are y'all that pressed to brag on who y'all have fucked and why is that such a thing with guys to make the next guy the girl is with jealous saying that they've smashed like bro let it go!! that does not get you brownie points, make you more of a man, get you more money, make ya dick grow longer or nothing. It makes you look dumb as hell, childish and weak.

The fact that you still bragging about fucking some girl you fucked doggy-style years ago. She ain't even thinking bout ya ugly ass no more hence the reason why she with a new nigga who know her body down to the T unlike you, who took you three tries to find her clit, with ya childish ass! Grow up and let it the fuck goooo damn.

Anyways.

I was going to speak on The new abortion laws and add in my two cents about it but, I feel like if I'm going to speak on something like that, then I need to be educated on it. I only really saw the posts people were making and that's it. I didn't read anything official and, I didn't wanna go on a rant about how fucked up it was and not know all the facts about it and make myself look dumb. But I will be speaking on this when I educate myself further on it and come with all the facts and receipts.

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- Haze